-- One attribute I do have is the ability to stand and hold my own in a conversation - and there has been many a time when I have taken the lead and mildly nudged or steered the conversation 'my way.' --
You may have noticed this?-- I give the conversation Direction.
-- On the one hand, I keep my mouth shut and listen to what is being spoken. I find that I learn more from listening than from talking. -- I know what I would say and I want to learn about the other speaker, and to do that, I have to be attentive.-- This makes who I am listening to, to think that they're smarter than I am because I listen to them.-- And don't you feel smarter when you're talking and your listener is listening, attentively? Sure you do.
-- Have you observed that teachers in the classroom are asking leading questions? They prove to you that you are smart (or dumb) by asking you your opinion, -- "What do you think about..?"
-- By doing that, the teacher brings out the entire classroom: 1. Finds the smarter students to give the higher grades. 2. Makes sure that the homework is worked upon. 3. Re-emphasizes the important details. 4. Even the wrong answers will bring out the correct answers. 5. It drums in the knowledge.
-- Hold it -- Stop!! --> What is being gained from what was just stated?: Simply this, "That nothing will ever be sold until a good Salesman [teacher] sells it." The teacher masters this art -- this skill of selling when drawing out the main points. -- Some are born with it; most have been trained by selling experts.
-- YOU are our "Salesman" example.
-- Call it 'Marketing' and it still boils down to one-on-one selling. Especially when YOU introduce a new concept, new idea, new anything. -- YOU --
-- [Trade Secret: Feed your listener bits of information. Let them digest it. Let them comment. Tell them a little more. Let them comment. They'll get off the subject. Steer them back. Bring them back. Nod your head up-and-down positively. Notice them agreeing. Stop selling. Write-up the sale. Add positive features. Make listener feel good about what they did.]
-- Remember this: Sell Yourself, Sell Your Product, and Sell Your Company or Organization.
-- Because, if done in that order, YOU have the ability to go on. By that I mean, you can always find another product to sell. You can always find another company or manufacturer to sell it from. You can (like a jugler) take on more products and more companies. You can convince others to sell for you. You can copy the salesmen and companies that are the leaders. You can do more today within the electronic medium than ever before, and what you don't know, find out about it. You will find that the experts are willing to share and tell you HOW THEY DID IT.
-- Learn about "The Six-Degrees of Separation."
-- Psychologist, Stanley Milgram, over thirty years ago began an experiment to uncover the connection in our personal network of friends and acquaintances. It reveled that we each have three-hundred acquaintances of which we are on a first name terms. That suggests we're just one handshake from three-hundred people, two away from 90,000, three from 27 million and so on.
-- Viewed this way, it only takes as many as five or six handshakes to connect every American to every other. -- An average of four would connect up to 250,000,000. -- Everyone on Planet Earth is separated from everyone else by no more than six degrees of separation, or six friends of friends. :-) IT'S WHO YOU KNOW AS WELL AS WHAT YOU KNOW.
-- "Be sure" by networking with and through the IASL. - We'll shake on that. ;-)
-- "Making a wrong decision is understandable. Refusing to search continually for learning is not." --
Philip Crosby, Reflections on Quality